Adoptions can be both closed and open. But there is another option called a semi-open adoption.
Our experienced Alabama adoption lawyers at Gulf Coast Adoptions explains what a semi-open adoption is and what to consider.
Defining Semi-Open Adoption
A semi-open adoption is an adoption where birth parents and adoptive parents exchange information through an intermediary like the adoption agency. The parents agree to exchange limited information after the adoption is complete while keeping their identities private.
How Semi-Open Adoption Works
In a semi-open adoption, birth parents and adoptive parents agree to limited contact before and after the adoption is finalized. Examples may include the following:
- Knowing first names
- Photos of the child
- Updates about the child
- Gifts from a birth parent to the child
- The birth parents’ health information
The birth parents may meet before or after the adoption if they choose.
After the adoption, is information exchanged and facilitated through a third party. The parents agree on what information the adoptive parents will provide, like updates about school and photos of the child. The birth parent may send gifts to the child.
Those involved agree on the frequency of the contact. Common options are annually, semi-annually, or quarterly.
Semi-open adoption keeps details private.
Information is exchanged through a third party so that identities stay private.
Semi-Open Adoption vs. Open Adoption
In an open adoption, the birth and adoptive parents share identifying information. They know each other’s identities. They may communicate directly as the child grows up. The birth parent may communicate with the child.
When an adoption is semi-open, communication happens through a facilitator. Contact is limited in frequency and scope.
Semi-Open Adoption vs. Closed Adoption
In semi-open adoption, some information is shared between birth and adoptive parents. In a closed adoption, all identities are kept confidential. There is no ongoing communication.
Benefits of Semi-Open Adoption for Birth Parents
Semi-open adoption allows a birth parent to receive updates about the child while still maintaining their privacy. A birth mother or father can see their child’s growth but also have privacy. Semi-open adoption can be the right balance for the well-being of the birth parents. It can provide a birth parent with closure and a continued connection to their child.
Benefits of Semi-Open Adoption for Adoptive Families
Adoptive families may want to provide updates to birth parents, while still maintaining the privacy and autonomy of the family unit. Semi-open adoption may help the child understand their personal history.
Potential Challenges of Semi-Open Adoption
There are both benefits and challenges of semi-option adoption. Limitations may include the following:
- Birth parents may feel the connection to the child is less meaningful because contact is indirect.
- The child may experience challenges in understanding their identity.
- Birth parents may feel like there is no closure, preventing them from moving forward in their lives.
- Grief and a feeling of loss may come from observing the child’s life.
- Delayed responses may result because of needing to work through an intermediary.
- There may be an inability to enforce the agreement.
- Lack of open communication may mean reduced access to personal and medical history that may be beneficial for the child to know.
- It may be difficult to make changes to the agreement if someone wants a change.
- There may be uncertainty about the amount of contact and changing relationships in the coming years.
A semi-open adoption can be the right choice but not in every circumstance.
Are semi-option adoption agreements enforceable?
Most semi-open adoption agreements are honored by those involved. Although semi-open adoption agreements are put in writing, it is difficult to enforce them in many states.
Alabama doesn’t recognize post-adoption agreements (except for limited grandparent visitation when the adoption is by a close family member). Florida recognizes post-adoption contact agreements, but non-compliance does not affect the validity of the adoption.
How To Establish a Semi-Open Adoption Agreement
To establish a semi-open adoption agreement, think about the kind of contact you would like to have after the adoption is complete.
The agency facilitating the adoption can help parents discuss the options and come to an agreement. Semi-open adoption agreements should always be put in writing.
Contact an Experienced Alabama Adoption Expert
At Gulf Coast Adoptions, we spend hours talking with birth mothers for free. If you’re considering semi-open adoption, we’re happy to discuss your situation with no judgment. There is no cost for birth mothers.
To learn more about semi-open adoption, call or message Gulf Coast Adoptions to talk to a friendly team member.